Monday, August 9, 2010

the gay thing....

I've been following this guy for a while, he writes the most amazing stuff I get to read online! And he makes some beautiful photos too!
Here's what he thinks about gay people (him being gay and all that). The reason I'm reposting it here is because it's what I think, only I would write it in a much cruder way.
"Actually,
I don't see straight people as normal.
I accept it, it doesn't bother me,
but I don't emotionally understand the attraction.
How can you fancy someone who's a whole different gender than you?
When I see girly girls and masculine guys,
I just don't really get it,
it looks alienating and unequal to me.
That said,
I have the same trouble with tops and bottoms,
girly guys with a faggoty lisp
and hairy daddy bears.
Same problem, it looks mismatched.
It's a mismatch to me.
"Which one of you is the girl?" That one I really, really hate.
It really implies a heterosexual relationship, only with both having dicks.
All of it is fine,
it's great,
but none of it appeals to me.
I don't want a mother figure or a father figure,
I don't to be protected and I certainly don't want to be anyone's keeper either.
I guess people want another who is unlike them
in order to be a complete entity together.
I on the other hand feel like I want a brother figure,
someone who is like me.
Opposites do not attract me.
I'm a complete entity. What I want is resonance.
Not a negative component to complete the circle,
because my circle is self sufficient,
but I want another full circle to resonate and amplify me.
Like a best friend,
who's my wavelength.
Only, a best friend I sleep with,
who holds my hand and play fights with me too.
Well, that is when the time is suited for that.

And so I was not so happy with that question,
although it was well meant.

When people find out I like boys instead of girls,
their reaction is usually disbelief.
"What, really? You're kidding? I mean I know gay people. You're, I mean; seriously?"
Some times they remain unsure even after that,
and think I'm just joking.
People tend to have the bitchy lisping queen stereotype around here.

One girl once said -
"I can usually tell whos gay. I mean you just notice it.
They act differently. You can see they have more female hormones."

I resent that too.

I actually think guy love is a manly thing.
I mean sharing your guy points with another dude surely doubles them.
If I think about roman soldiers
or samurai (even better),
they were warriors.
That's probably as manly as you got in those times.
And they were the ones sleeping with eachother.
If you're in a relationship relating to another guy who's like you,
how can that be anything else than amplifying eachother's manliness.

Maybe my view on this is rarer.
But I think it's catching on."

You can find him here: http://littlesilverbones.deviantart.com/

2 comments:

  1. Uuuuu...me likes his way of thinking! Very much! :D

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  2. well he does have a strong point there right =)

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